If you and your ex are still fighting after a custody order has been entered, the fighting is likely having a negative impact on you and your family. There are several valid reasons why a great deal of conflict might linger, even though your case has been resolved. Maybe there are residual trust or anger issues. Maybe there are too many scars from past physical or mental abuse. Perhaps your former spouse has a personality disorder and is simply impossible to make decisions with. Whatever the reason, North Carolina legislators have recognized that certain kinds of custody cases require extra …Read More
Divorce
Divorce Dos and Don’ts
If you’re thinking about divorce, keep these important DOs and DON’Ts in mind: DO NOT cheat on your spouse while still living with him/her! DO assume that every single communication you have with anyone – even deleted emails and texts – can be retrieved; assume that your whereabouts can always be discovered. If you think your spouse is cheating, DO NOT confront her/him. Stay quiet and hire a good private investigator. DO NOT let your spouse know that you suspect him/her of cheating unless and until your attorney gives you the okay. If you will be seeking alimony from your …Read More